Ethics - General Discussion
In this section we discuss Epicurean Ethics and how to live as an Epicurean in a world where there are no supernatural gods and no life after death.
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Spitting Upon the Beautiful... 3
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 October 23, 2025 at 10:28 PM 
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Driving Away Bad Habits "Like Evil Men Who Have Long Done Us Great Harm" (Including Addictions)
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 April 23, 2025 at 4:17 PM 
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A Fable on Unattainable Expectations 6
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 October 16, 2024 at 5:12 PM 
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Scientific Support for Psychological Hedonism 19
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 April 19, 2024 at 1:43 PM 
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Why Minimizing All Desire Is Incorrect (And What To Do Instead) 34
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 December 4, 2024 at 11:15 AM 
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Practical Pleasure-Pain Perspectives: How Different is 99% Pleasure From 100% Pleasure? 13
- Cassius
 October 5, 2023 at 12:06 PM 
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Epicurean Golden Rule? 14
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 July 5, 2023 at 5:55 PM 
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If We Agree For The Sake of Argument That "The Perfect Should Not Be The Enemy of The Good," then let's ask "What *Should* We Consider To Be The Proper Relationship Between The Perfect And The Good?" 8
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List of Epicurean philosophical remedies
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 November 8, 2023 at 10:52 AM 
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Desiderata 2
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 August 2, 2023 at 7:02 PM 
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Ruminations on leading with “Pleasure and Pain as the Guide” v “The Goal is Pleasure” 4
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 June 7, 2023 at 9:10 PM 
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Sedley paper on Plato with interesting Epicurean implications 2
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 April 30, 2022 at 7:32 AM 
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Do you believe in psychological hedonism/egoism? Any philosophers on this? 6
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 October 17, 2025 at 6:18 PM 
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The Normal Curve of Pleasure 5
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 July 22, 2024 at 1:28 PM 
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Health of the Body and Happiness of the Soul -vs- "The Goal is Pleasure" 4
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 June 4, 2024 at 1:34 PM 
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My 2024 Resolution: Get A More Accurate Picture of Epicurean Pleasure To The World Rather Than "Tranquility" or "Live Unkown"(Comment on Irish Times Article) 15
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 January 1, 2024 at 7:03 AM 
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How has the word epicurean come to mean excess? 22
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 May 13, 2023 at 9:24 AM 
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Perspectives On "Proving" That Pleasure is "The Good" 209
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Pleasure, Desire and Limits 36
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 July 17, 2022 at 9:25 PM 
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Wanting vs Liking
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 January 24, 2021 at 9:05 AM 
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Natural versus Unnatural 12
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 December 30, 2020 at 8:54 AM 
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Valueless Virtue in Modern Stoicism 16
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 January 10, 2019 at 8:48 AM 
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Fundamental Issues In Hedonism 15
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 December 10, 2023 at 8:18 AM 
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Tips On Offsetting Pleasures Against Pains 24
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 November 28, 2023 at 8:27 AM 
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Pleasure vs pain - example and thoughts! 10
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Is pleasure as the natural goal of life falsifiable? 30
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Are You Epicurean Or Hieronymian? 26
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 October 1, 2019 at 2:08 PM 
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You Only Live Once
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 October 6, 2018 at 10:48 AM 
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A General Thought About The Future Of Epicurean Philosophy - On The Meaning of "Pleasure" 2
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What amount of effort should be put into pursuing pleasure or removing pain? 23
- Kalosyni
 June 24, 2025 at 7:31 AM 
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