"According to Lucretius, love is insatiable, accompanied by pain, heart-ache, bitterness, and other mental disturbances."
As a 45 year old male that has been in several long term relationships in my life lasting 4-7 years each...
I dont see the point anymore.
I've been single for 4 years now, I have more peace of mind than I've ever had in my life, zero drama, a wonderful daughter that i enjoy spending time with, and I'm crushing my goals every year.
I do think about sex when i see beautiful women in public and love the idea of having more friends.... but i have zero desire to be committed to anyone romantically.
And despite my contentment im reminded by society and friends and family frequently that my situation is clearly not normal.
So naturally i second guess if im missing out on something or what.
I still havnt figured out....if i did have more female friends and start having sex again what that would even LOOK like...the dynamic etc.
Would love to hear feedback from anyone.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this...I hope all of you are having a wonderful day.
Peace n love