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  • Episode Sixty-Two - The Perils of Romantic Love (Part 2)

    • Don
    • March 23, 2021 at 10:01 PM

    I finally had the chance to listen to the entire episode. I agree this is an important practical topic. Lucretius's focus on a men's perspective primarily is simply because it was a very patriarchal society. His deciding to talk about women enjoying sex at all is a revolutionary idea for his time.

    I also generally agree with Elayne's brief comment near the end on women's status in ancient Roman society. In fact, women were always going to be under the control of a male guardian. Male slaves could at least have the possibility of buying or winning their freedom. The pater familias, the oldest male in the household, literally had life and death control over all the members of the household. The women of ancient Greece had their lives even more circumscribed.

    Ancient Greek and Roman women could only exercise any influence solely through the men in their lives. If they could get men to listen to them only by feigning to enjoy sex with them, more power to them. They had to be resourceful.

    The hetairai of ancient Greece had it both better and worse than most women. From what I remember reading, they had no recourse if a roaming band of drunken men tried to break into their house to demand sex. There are stories of men trying to burn doors down because they felt entitled even after being turned away for being rude, drunk, and disorderly. I've read the hetairai were often more free and cultured than married women, but at the cost of their security. They were expected to entertain men, engage them in high-level conversation at symposia, and also be available for sex. Some hetairai were long-term companions of particular men (e.g., Pericles and Aspasia)

    On a slight tangent: To get a woman's perspective on Ancient Greece in an entertaining and poignant fashion, I highly recommend Natalie Haynes recent novel A Thousand Ships. This is a retelling of the Trojan War from the perspective of all the women and goddesses mentioned in Homer and other sources. Haynes does an amazing job narrating the audiobook, too! It was an eye-opening experience listening to it.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 23, 2021 at 5:09 PM

    btw... I believe this all hinges on the definition of "injustice" and what it means in an Epicurean context to be "unjust."

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 23, 2021 at 3:49 PM

    Okay, I'm working through whether I concur with all your assertions and citations. Leaning towards some, others... Jury remains out.

    Let me propose an alternative history scenario (and I know I'm going against my "no hypotheticals" policy):

    • The Confederacy and the United States sign a treaty in the 1860s recognizing the Confederacy as a separate country.
    • The institution of slavery continues in the South.
    • Does this represent no injustice since enslaved people have no power to enter into a social agreement?
    • What would an Epicurean - either northern or southern - have to say about this after the treaty between the two countries was signed?
  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 23, 2021 at 2:36 PM

    Let me talk this out:

    So, humanists deal in ideals. "The powerful *should* protect the weak." There's no natural source for this. It simply derives from the humanist idealist perspective of the "intrinsic" value of human life. It's an article of faith if you will. Epicurus rejects ideals and absolutes. So...

    Question 1: What, if any, intrinsic value does Epicurus place on human life? I'm seeing the answer as "none" with the caveat that he also places great value on the life of the individual since this is the ONLY life you get... And we should strive to make it as pleasurable as possible.

    So, maybe the idea that Epicurus doesn't place an absolute value on human life needn't bother me? But...

    Question 2: Is Epicurus equating animals with the people who don't have the power to - or who chose not to - enter into social agreements? On one level, that's true. From a naturalist perspective, we're all animals. On the other hand, this idea has been used to rationalize some heinous atrocities throughout history. Does Epicureanism recognize such events as atrocities (e.g., Holocaust, Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade, Cambodian Killing Fields, etc etc)? Or, if the people involved had no power, is there any injustice? What is an Epicurean response to these kinds of events - historically and contemporary? If there one kind of response or just individual responses? What is the practical response? What is the philosophical response?

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 23, 2021 at 11:09 AM

    If we're taking a deep dive into the meaning of justice and injustice in Epicurus's Philosophy, I'm going all in. Mostly for myself, but y'all are welcome to ride along. Let's hold our breath!

    In trying to get a handle on what the last few Principal Doctrines mean, I'm looking next at 32:

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    Saint-Andre translation: With regard to those animals that do not have the power of making a covenant to not harm one another or be harmed, there is neither justice nor injustice; similarly for those peoples who have neither the power nor the desire of making a covenant to not harm one another or be harmed.

    I'm using Saint-Andre's translation because I find it more literal than some of the others. Even so, it's helpful to parse the original text along with it.

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    32 Ὅσα τῶν ζῴων μὴ ἐδύνατο συνθήκας ποιεῖσθαι τὰς ὑπὲρ τοῦ μὴ βλάπτειν ἄλλα μηδὲ βλάπτεσθαι, πρὸς ταῦτα οὐθὲν ἦν δίκαιον οὐδὲ ἄδικον· ὡσαύτως δὲ καὶ τῶν ἐθνῶν ὅσα μὴ ἐδύνατο ἢ μὴ ἐβούλετο τὰς συνθήκας ποιεῖσθαι τὰς ὑπὲρ τοῦ μὴ βλάπτειν μηδὲ βλάπτεσθαι.

    Here we find βλάπτειν and its forms again, so we're dealing with intention it seems. But who are these people (εθνών) referred to as

    μὴ ἐδύνατο ἢ μὴ ἐβούλετο whose situation is similar to animals? They're not (μη) ἐδύνατο nor (μη) ἐβούλετο...

    ἐδύνατο had to do with having power or the ability to do something.

    ἐβούλετο had to do with making choices or preferences.

    So these people (εθνών ethnōn, related to English ethnography, ethnicity) had no power and no ability to make choices. It sounds like Epicurus is referring to conquered peoples or those unwilling to choose to make agreements (enemies?).

    My unease here stems from the fact that he seems to be equating the situation with these peoples with the situation with animals. We can't make agreements with animals, we can't make agreements with these peoples, and so there's no justice nor injustice with relation to them.

    Is he saying "don't worry about how you treat animals and people with whom you have no covenant"? There is no justice or injustice in these situations is what he's saying. Is this giving credence to "might makes right"? If so, I have some issues. Isn't part of the humanist - humanist not Epicureanism - philosophy that those weaker or less fortunate should be protected by and from those with more power?

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  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 22, 2021 at 10:40 PM
    Quote from Cassius

    Maybe we need to be very precise as to what it is that justice relates to. For example what does "courage" relate to? Will power? What does "temperance" relate to? Self-control? What does "wisdom" relate to? Practical application of knowledge?

    Cicero gives the spectrums as a starting point:

    • Wisdom < > Rashness
    • Temperance < > License
    • Courage < > Cowardice
    • Justice < > Unrighteousness

    Of course, you know I want to see the original Latin and various translations. For now, I won't digress. It seems to me that these each relate to a different decision-making process, i.e., to which end of the spectrum do we gravitate:

    • How do we decide on courses of action?
    • How do we decide on which desires to pursue?
    • How do we respond to danger?
    • How do we treat other people?

    Cicero - and possibly Epicurus - seems to imply that a more pleasurable life will be lived by the person who gravitates to the left than to the right.

    Quote from Cassius

    Perhaps the area of human life that "justice" relates to is simply "our relationship with other people" and the question involved is "does this or that relationship in fact lead to pleasure for each person concerned, or does it lead to pain for one of more of the people concerned?

    Is it possible that the question of just or unjust is as simple as that?

    I think it is. Look at the experiments with children and monkeys and fairness (i.e., justice). They know when the puppet or they themselves are being cheated. I believe that's the concept of fairness (Lisa Feldman Barrett maybe) or prolepsis (Epicurus) that forms the basis of our idea of justice.

    I think it's important to look at PD 31 and the exact words used:

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    31: Natural justice is a covenant for mutual benefit [σύμβολον τοῦ συμφέροντος, lit. "an agreement of interests"], to not harm one another or be harmed.

    Τὸ τῆς φύσεως δίκαιόν ἐστι σύμβολον τοῦ συμφέροντος εἰς τὸ μὴ βλάπτειν ἀλλήλους μηδὲ βλάπτεσθαι.

    [St-Andre note to PD 31] The word σύμβολον refers to a covenant, contract, or other mutual agreement, especially (in a legal sense) a treaty between two city-states to safeguard trading between them. The verb βλάπτω means to hurt or damage someone or something, but not in a way that reflects willful injustice or wrongdoing (for which the verb ἀδικέω is used)

    Τὸ τῆς φύσεως δίκαιόν is a little more complex than "natural justice" would imply. To dikaion (Τὸ ... δίκαιόν) has to do with behaving in an orderly manner, adhering to mutual obligations in contracts, observant of duties to gods and men, etc. The modifying phrase (...τῆς φύσεως ...) tēs physeōs is literally "of nature" or to paraphrase natural, but also the natural form or constitution of something. "The most fundamental form of the mutual obligations of two parties" is a long-winded way of getting at the nuance of the topic of PD 31.

    And what is this "natural form"? To not harm or be harmed refers "to not hurt or damage someone or something in a way that reflects willful injustice or wrongdoing." Therefore, willful injustice or wrongdoing are not "just" ways of acting. You have to consider intention in deciding if one's actions are just or not.

    Injustice ἀδικία rears its head then in PD 34:

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    34: Ἡ ἀδικία οὐ καθ’ ἑαυτὴν κακόν...

    Injustice (ἀδικία) or "hurting or damaging someone or something in a way that reflects willful injustice or wrongdoing" is not purely bad in itself... (but only because of the fear caused by a suspicion that you will not avoid those who are appointed to punish wrongdoing. )

    So, do we act justly or righteously to simply avoid this disturbance and anxiety? Is Epicurus just saying you will lead a pleasurable life if you act justly because you won't be looking over your shoulder your whole life? I think this is part of it, but there also seems to be a societal component as well. But that can wait until tomorrow!

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 22, 2021 at 5:42 PM

    I can't shake the idea that it has to be possible to determine if an action or law is just or not. Why else would Epicurus devote so many of the Principal Doctrines to justice?

    I intellectually understand no divine or absolute source for morality, and life is contextual. But Epicurus's prolepsis of justice has to have some practical application.

    What is it but to help us choose how to act justly which goes hand in hand with living pleasurably?

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 22, 2021 at 3:17 PM
    Quote from Elayne

    Is your new assertion "People who take pleasure in what a just human would find unjust aren't living according to Epicurean principles and so we would have reason to intervene and attempt to get them to change. Just because they are feeling pleasure doesn't make their life choice-worthy. I wrestle with this, but the more I think about it, the more I'm coming to these conclusions."

    Have you substituted "just" for "average", and "unjust" for "repugnant"?

    There's revision from there, too. It may be tweaking around the corners but I'll submit this:

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    PD10A: If the objects which are productive of pleasures to persons engaged in unjust acts really freed them from fears of the mind — the fears, I mean, inspired by celestial and atmospheric phenomena, the fear of death, the fear of pain — if, further, they taught them to limit their desires, [then] we should not have any reason to censure such persons, for they would then be filled with pleasure to overflowing on all sides and would be exempt from all pain, whether of body or mind, that is, from all evil.


    Sorry. I couldn't resist. But that's my basic argument... "What is just and unjust from an Epicurean perspective, and what is choice-worthy?"

    Quote from Elayne

    I would also say it's not correct to label someone taking pleasure in _anything_ as not Epicurean.

    You're right. Experiencing pleasure or not doesn't make one an Epicurean. Every living thing does that. To be an Epicurean, we need to make decisions based on the Canon, etc.

    Quote from Elayne

    Btw, it's 100% natural for humans to establish taboos, unjust or not.

    In the current discussion, I don't believe homophobia can be termed a taboo although you may be able to define taboo broadly enough to include anything culturally prohibited. But even with that, I would assert it ultimately springs from a religious prejudice even if it eventually becomes "cultural."

    Quote from Elayne

    I can see it makes you very uncomfortable to confront the lack of definite moral standards apart from individual pleasure. I think that's what makes this discussion relevant to where it started, because that's exactly why people cling to the fixed virtues in Stoicism rather than to pleasure.

    Is it that obvious? ;) Frankly, that's one thing that bothers me. Maybe I'm not cut out for Epicureanism after all. Maybe I am a Stoic or a Buddhist after all. This discussion is very interesting from that perspective too in making me confront prejudices and proclivities of my own.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 22, 2021 at 11:27 AM

    Just thinking, we need to be careful to distinguish among behaviors or laws that are just, that are moral, or that are ethical. The latter two bleed into the area of absolutists. But we *should* be able to decide if an act or law is just or not. We're supposed to have prolepseis of that after all.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 22, 2021 at 8:29 AM
    Quote from Cassius

    It is possible that it would be a good idea to start a new discussion under one of the "justice" subforums.

    :) Good idea. We've gone far astray off the initial topic of this thread.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 22, 2021 at 7:00 AM
    Quote from Cassius

    ...There's a pleasure in using one's mind and doing what one can to find out the truth and then apply the lessons learned, and at least from my point of view that pleasure is worth an awful lot.

    That entire post is an eloquent statement of your beliefs and obviously heartfelt and sincere. I deeply appreciate your sharing it.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 22, 2021 at 6:35 AM
    Quote from Cassius

    Epicurus might say that "justice" means "an agreement (contract?) that brings pleasure to all parties to the contract." If so, then injustice might refer to "an agreement (contract? social relationship?) that does NOT bring pleasure to all parties in that relationship.

    I see where you're going I think.

    But if that's the case, then I also think I stand by my initial assertion that the law/custom/contract to execute homosexuals is not just because it certainly doesn't benefit both parties.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 21, 2021 at 10:52 PM

    In light of there being no absolute justice (or ideal virtue of justice), how do we determine if an act (or law) is just? How do we act justly?

    Can you provide a specific scenario that would illustrate someone acting justly? Or the opposite?

    That's not a challenge btw 😉 just a clarifying question.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 21, 2021 at 10:46 PM

    I also would say that the pleasure of the homophobe is no more choice-worthy than the pleasure of the profligate from our old friend PD 10. You may get pleasure from it for awhile, but it's eventually going to bite you... Or has the potential to. In the former case, depending where they go in the world, there is social sanction, political ostracism, becoming a victim of violence if you state your beliefs to the wrong person, etc.

    I realize this veers from the justice argument, but I feel it's also a consideration in determining the choice-worthiness of the pleasure.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 21, 2021 at 10:35 PM
    Quote from Cassius

    in the dealings of men with one another, in any place whatever, and at any time,

    In the modern world, how do we define "place". Are we dealing with only national or smaller places... Or do we consider the international arena to take precedence? Or the human community,? Or something else entirely?

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 21, 2021 at 10:27 PM
    Quote from Cassius

    I think this is a very good scenario to illustrate the issue, so I am not sure Don why you see this as "the exact opposite of what you had in mind"(?) Maybe there is something in your comment there, as to why you find the scenario the opposite of what you were thinking, that would help if you explained(?)

    Oh, I originally approached the thought experiment as something I (or someone like me) would find repugnant (e.g., killing ones children, torturing people, etc.) that someone else would find laudable. I didn't consider the scenario of somebody being repelled by something I feel positive toward. So I found the turned-tables an interesting but unexpected opportunity to explore this topic.

    I hope that helps explain my verbage.

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 21, 2021 at 10:20 PM

    I think I see where you're coming from, but I'm trying to apply PD31 to the scenario:

    Quote

    31 Natural justice is a covenant for mutual benefit, to not harm one another or be harmed. [St-Andre note to PD 31: The word σύμβολον refers to a covenant, contract, or other mutual agreement, especially (in a legal sense) a treaty between two city-states to safeguard trading between them. The verb βλάπτω means to hurt or damage someone or something, but not in a way that reflects willful injustice or wrongdoing (for which the verb ἀδικέω is used)]

    That scenario did not seem to agree with that doctrine. But I'm re-reading your post... Maybe a couple times before replying in-depth. Thanks for engaging in this!!

  • Toward A Better Understanding of Epicurean Justice And Injustice (With Examples of "Just" and "Unjust")

    • Don
    • March 21, 2021 at 9:34 PM

    [ADMIN NOTE: This new thread was started so as to contain the responses to the following post, which is itself a response by Don to a post by Elayne. Please check Elayne's post in the original thread for past context. As per the title I gave the new thread, it would be good to produce some hypothetical examples of "just" and "unjust" so we can begin to see the common themes.]


    Quote from Elayne

    There are people who take great pleasure in actions which their current majority culture labels repugnant but who cause no actual harm to anyone-- and this is definitely a common human social situation, especially in association with religions, not a rare or hypothetical event. For instance, in some cultures, anything other than heteroromantic love and sex is treated with disgust and in some cases still today with the death penalty. Would you say that a consenting adult same-sex couple in such a culture was not Epicurean to have a relationship even at risk of death? I certainly would not.

    Okay, this is helpful for me to flesh out my thinking if y'all will bear with me...

    I would say this specific scenario is the exact opposite of what I had in mind when I wrote my post, but that's valuable. I do find the scenario you outline repugnant (i.e., that someone holds those beliefs, to be clear), but I want to try and analyse this from an Epicurean perspective and not my personal preference.

    First, I believe your scenario can be analysed to spring from an "empty" opinion or belief on the part of the one feeling "disgust" and, as such, they are not acting morally, justly, or prudently, and so their action can be said to be not choice-worthy.

    1. Nature appears to provide abundant examples of same sex activities, so the "disgust" does not arise from nature.

    2. If not from nature, it must arise from culture and/or law.

    3. As such, is the law/custom just? Does it conform with the basic measure of justice: to neither harm nor be harmed.

    4. The same sex couple are harmed explicitly. The empty belief also harms the one holding it by producing unnecessary pain. So, it does not align with the basic measure of acting justly.

    5. The belief could also arise from religious (god-given) or cultural indoctrination. We know the gods do not hand down dictates from on-high. If it is cultural indoctrination, Epicurus encouraged us to free ourselves from that.

    6. Therefore, I would say the person holding this opinion and getting pleasure from it is not acting justly, wisely, or morally. If they experience momentary pleasure from holding this belief, it is not choice-worthy for the reasons outlined here. The opinion will not lead to a maximally pleasurable life. A person holding that belief cannot consider themselves as following an Epicurean path.

    Now, to turn to the couple.

    1. The pleasure of the relationship is not an empty opinion. It arises naturally. I see no reason that specific pleasure is not choice-worthy, but...

    2. In deciding to continue the relationship, the couple has to weigh multiple options in deciding choices or rejections: Is the pain at the anxiety of getting "caught" more than the pain of being apart from their partner? How long can their relationship be kept secret? Do they have alternatives? Can they migrate somewhere else? In this case, only they can decide if the resulting pleasure is worth the pain. I wouldn't have any issues with saying these two people were following an Epicurean path regardless of their ultimate choice.

  • Epicurean philosophy vs. Stoicism in public popularity

    • Don
    • March 21, 2021 at 10:42 AM
    Quote from Elayne

    It's not a virtue of mine, relative to them, that I avoid doing things they do-- it's only a virtue in regards to my own pleasure. They wouldn't be happier changing to be like me, either, so far as I can tell.

    Ah, that's my point. Someone observing your behavior may attribute it to your "virtue." You know that's an erroneous interpretation, but you're not responsible for correcting their mistaken opinion. [Unless you want to engage in some Epicurean evangelism, of course. That's up to you.] You know you're doing it because it brings you pleasure.

    Quote from Elayne

    I have not changed my position from what I outlined in my article

    Thanks for the link. I'll take a look at that.

    Quote from Elayne

    What I mean by pleasure occurring or not is that it depends on material causes, not on people's opinions about what ought to happen.

    Okay, I have no problem with this then. Your previous phrasing read to me like you were advocating some kind of sui generis arising. I interpreted it to mean you were implying something different. As long as we're clear the work needs to be done and choices and rejections need to be made to bring it about, we're in agreement.

    Quote from Elayne

    Maximum pleasure is exactly what an ordinary person would say it is-- total filling of one's mind and body with wonderful bliss-- and it occurs when all pain is absent. When one has achieved maximum blissfulness, it's unmistakable. One will not want anything more at that time, as Epicurus noted. Contrary to rumor, regular humans can experience this.

    :thumbup:

    Quote from Elayne

    The maximum possible pleasure over a lifetime is realistically not likely going to involve continuous total bliss, because we don't have the power to prevent every pain, including pains that can stand in the path to pleasures--- but we can obtain a lot more ongoing pleasure than most people realize.

    :thumbup::thumbup:

    Quote from Elayne

    We must evaluate all decisions and virtues in light of pleasure as our sole guide and goal. Yes, of course, it's smart to take into account both our past experiences and the experiences of other humans in similar situations. That's basic physics.

    Yep, I agree with this statement, too.

    So.... Do we disagree somewhere then that I'm missing? Is there anything I've stated that you take issue with? Or that I've implied that you don't agree with? I'm sincere and not being mean, sarcastic, or flippant here. I'm genuinely curious to dig into details.

  • Epicurean philosophy vs. Stoicism in public popularity

    • Don
    • March 21, 2021 at 12:13 AM
    Quote from Cassius

    In other words I don't think any of us have a problem with saying that "in general" we can use the past to point the right direction in the future, but we certainly can't do that all the time, and we have to understand that the universe isn't mechanistic or determined or fated or guided by divinity and so walk and chew gum at the same time.

    One of the few things we can use to make choices and rejections in the present is whether we reacted with pleasure or pain to a specific action in a specific situation in the past. Is the current situation similar enough to the past situation to warrant one decision or another? Barring that, have we observed others taking actions that had painful or pleasurable outcomes *from our perspective* in similar circumstances to this? We don't have to accept a mechanistic or divine universe to use observation and perceived causes and effects to make prudent decisions.

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