Elli I do have a couple of questions to be sure I understand your meaning:
(1) So what do you see as the proper understanding of "gods" in Epicurean philosophy? I see you referencing living as gods among men, and you are saying that Epicurus did not mean that literally. Can you say more about the implications of what he DID mean?
(2) And maybe as an example, how do you take the opening of Book 1 of Lucretius and how that fits into your view?
I know there's a lot more to this topic but I am sure the people in this thread would be interested in more details of your view given that you are so much more familiar with Greek traditions, current Greek Epicurean views, etc, than most of us are.