VS28 - One must not approve of those who are excessively eager for friendship, nor those who are reluctant. But one must be willing to run some risks for the sake of friendship. - Inwood and Gerson
If you are too eager you aren't paying attention to the risks. If you are too reluctant then your fears are getting in the way.
TauPhi you had a good interpretation last night in our study meeting...I am trying to remember what you said?