(Does the pain of that makes it choice-worthy?)
I think that (the decision to leave, fight, or comply) is an entirely contextual decision, and an example of the urgency of the need to smash the idea that Epicurus defined the goal as absence of pain so that he could emphasize that total painlessness through the avoidance of every pain is the first and greatest commandment. Someone who takes such a position would be impelled toward compliance toward things which we could find as abhorrent as any of the outrages you've referenced earlier.